Sunday, March 27, 2011

I'M A GROWN MAN

If I make the statement. "I'm a grown man". Who am I really trying to convince. Men recognize men. Women recognize men and even children recognize MEN.  We grown men are coming up short in our relationships with ourselves, women and families. Is it a selfish thing or a self will thing?

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  1. My Mama once told me, "If you have to TELL people you're a lady, you probably aren't." The same applies to 'grown man' IMHO. :)

    To answer your question: Both.

    IMHO, Love is Selfless and God gave us Free Will. If an adult (man or woman) CHOOSES to be SELFISH, then of course they will fall short in SOMEONE's eyes, even if not in their own. But that is their choice.

    I am of the opinion, based on decades of living on this earth, that not all people are meant to be married and/or a parent. Yet, many still do it because of the stigma society puts on individuals who are single and/or childless. Or because they think it's manly or womanly to bring a child into this world...wanted nor not. And it hurts everyone in their orbit.

    IMHO, if more people would just be THEMSELVES and do as they like as long as it doesn't hurt others, then everyone will be happy (relatively, anyway).

    Be YOU (IF you know who that is). The people who matter won't mind, and the people who mind don't matter.

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  2. :) Did I leave you speechless, Cuz'n? lol...

    In My Humble Opinion. (I say IMHO a lot because it IS just that...my opinion. And opinions are like butts; everyone has one...some just smell better than others. :)

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  3. LMBO. You can be a mess. A good one, but a mess. Just the same.

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  4. :) Thank you...thankyouverymuch! <3

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